Please God, not Africa!

Oops.  Is it May already? In one way it feels like we've been home for only a couple of weeks and in other ways it feels like we never left.  (Except for the fact that Nate and the boys are thousands of miles away. That definitely feels weird.) I haven't written lately because I really haven't known what to say.  It's just been day-in and day-out kinda stuff here in Canada.  From nursing visits, to visiting family and friends, doing laundry etc. A week or so ago, Kylie, Teddy and I went north to Muskoka to pick up our truck.  We were absolutely astonished when friends up there pooled their money and did a bunch of work on it.  From new brakes and tires to a new exhaust system, our big Suburban got a new lease on life.  We are so very grateful! We stayed with Nate's cousins, Tim and Karla and had a great time together.  The weather was amazing so we went to the park and played around outside.  Below is Kylie and her cousin, Pyper, four...

FIVE THINGS I MISS ABOUT AFRICA: 5.  Clothes that dry on the line in less than 15 minutes! At least that was how it was when I left during the dry season, now that it's coming into rainy season it can two or three days depending on how wet and humid it is. 4. The Two-Handed Wave. There's nothing like driving out the gate at the hospital or zipping through town and getting the Togolese-Two-Handed-Wave, even from perfect strangers.  It just makes you feel like everyone is just waiting to become friends with you and they are genuinely glad you drove past. 3. Life on the Compound I really miss the craziness, the busyness and the never-a-dull-moment life on the hospital compound.  There's always something going on, someone popping by, or some crazy adventure (from discovering rotting meat in freezers to cracking open a safe...) 2.  My Friends I miss my new friends -the missionaries on our team and the Togolese friends we made.  It stinks that...

Last night I was laying awake, thinking about how I haven't posted in a while and what on earth I had to say in a post.  There isn't a whole lot exciting going on here, but here's a quick update on what we're up to: In Africa.... Ethan had his surgery a week and a bit ago.  They removed three of the four screws and all went well.  He was pretty happy that Dr. K gave him the screws to keep.  For the surgery, he had a spinal anesthetic, and unfortunately something went a little wrong and he was leaking out spinal fluid - which means really bad headaches.  The poor guy was only pain-free when he was flat on his back.  From what other people have said, it can be really painful -- kind of like your brain has dried out because all the fluid around it has leaked out.  I don't know if Ethan's was THAT bad, but I know it took a few days before he was feeling better.  (Remember that I'm getting most of my info from a 14 year old boy or his father either...

I told you all about what is happening in Canada, now for a quick update on what's happening in Africa. Nate and Ethan went down to the Tsiko hospital today so that tomorrow Ethan could have a small surgery to remove the screws in his leg.  For now, they only want to take out the screws because three of them go right through the growth plate in his femur.  Friday he'll have that surgery and then he and Nate will head north again on Saturday.  Please pray for them as they travel and for the surgery as well. Currently the docs don't believe that Ethan will ever have to have the rod removed so for now the plan is to leave it as is.  Thank you, thank you, for continuing to pray for our family through all of this.  It truly is hard to be on opposite sides of the ocean with kids having crazy procedures and surgeries done while you're not there.  But God is good and you guys are praying because we are hanging in there...keep the prayers comin'.  We stil...

We finally made it out of the hospital!!  Hip, hip, hooray for us. We went in on Friday, March 23rd for "day surgery" and then they told us she would have to spend one night in the hospital just to keep on top of her pain meds.  One night turned into twelve and we finally got discharged on Tuesday, April 2nd. The reason we were incarcerated hospitalized for so long was because we had to wait for a PICC line.  This fun little medical procedure means that Kylie has an internal IV site.  That way the medicine can run up a tube inside her vein to her heart.  Her meds are really tough on veins and so she needs them to bypass the small veins and head right to the big one at the top of her heart that is way tougher.  At least that's what I understand. Tuesday at noon they started to prep her for her procedure.  Once the nurses told the doc how tough Kylie was (she had still been counting IV sites, and this last PICC line site was number 25!), they deci...

Week 2 back home has been interesting one.  This is going to be a pretty long post because there is a lot to cover, so hang with me. Last Friday was Kylie's surgery date.  On the morning of, we got a call from the doc's office saying that they were ahead of schedule (as if the snow wasn't enough of a clue, I knew for certain I was not in Togo when I heard the words "ahead of schedule"!).  They were waiting for US!  Imagine, docs waiting for patients?? We left right away for the hospital and when we got there, we registered and then were zoomed through the paper work, taking Kylie's vitals and getting ready for surgery.  Here we are in the little surgical waiting room: And here we are gowned and ready to rock and roll about 3 minutes later.  These guys waste no time. Before we went off to the OR, two of our pastors and my mom and my sister came in with us to pray.  Above photo is our little group who stood to pray for Kylie...

It's been a crazy few days since we landed.  We've been to the hospital and seen the surgeon.  Kylie's had an MRI, some x-rays and blood work.  I've seen our family doc for a little amoeba friend I brought home with me.  We've been clothes shopping (thanks Nate!), grocery shopping and out for pizza.  Dinner party, birthday party, church, Bible study and the list goes on. It has been so sweet to be reunited with family and friends! This morning we met with the surgeon.  I have to admit that last night I had a little trouble getting to sleep just thinking about what might be said to us.  Yesterday I had three different people (all in the medical profession) talk to me about the possibility of amputation and I was FLOORED!  It had never even occured to me that this was even a possibility.  And to hear it three different times was just astounding -- I thought I was going to throw up every time someone said it.  So this morning, I get up an...